Hm, let's say it like that - they're egoistic, selfish reasons, but that's not making you bad, just - human. I can understand why you do what you do, which is, of course, not chaning anything, but no, you're not bad. Egoistic, but not bad, and that's a huge difference, because being egoistic is nothing to be scared about, nor is getting advantage if that special person is not keen concerning talking to you and all that, too.
I'll probably repost the entry since it was saved in the end... But yeah well... once in a while I really have no problem with being egoistic.. at least not when it comes to small things like that.
And no, the person is not really all that talkative (at least not to me).. but considering the mass amount of friends on the flist there, it's no wonder.. hmmm....
There are other things playing into that as well I guess... I guess I'll define that a little more if I should repost the entry. I am in two minds about it though...
I think it's better you repost it and we talk about this again, to make things clear and whatnot, so that people like me can see your two sides, even try to understand them as best as it's possible.
*g* I will answer in the post I'll be making about it.. Not today though because I can barely look straight right now (noth that I usually do)....
It's just that there has been drama and I once again realised I might be a bit too egoistic to be on the right side... or whatever the sane side is .. or sometthing.. It's hard to explain really because I am kind of thrown myself.
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Date: 2008-07-01 10:40 pm (UTC)Honest :
Hm, let's say it like that - they're egoistic, selfish reasons, but that's not making you bad, just - human. I can understand why you do what you do, which is, of course, not chaning anything, but no, you're not bad. Egoistic, but not bad, and that's a huge difference, because being egoistic is nothing to be scared about, nor is getting advantage if that special person is not keen concerning talking to you and all that, too.
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Date: 2008-07-01 11:05 pm (UTC)I'll probably repost the entry since it was saved in the end... But yeah well... once in a while I really have no problem with being egoistic.. at least not when it comes to small things like that.
And no, the person is not really all that talkative (at least not to me).. but considering the mass amount of friends on the flist there, it's no wonder.. hmmm....
There are other things playing into that as well I guess... I guess I'll define that a little more if I should repost the entry.
I am in two minds about it though...
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Date: 2008-07-01 11:15 pm (UTC)*hugs*
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Date: 2008-07-01 11:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-07-02 04:15 am (UTC)*sighs*
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Date: 2008-07-02 11:03 am (UTC)(and no - just because I'm curious you do not have to answer if you don't want to, sure)
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Date: 2008-07-02 06:01 pm (UTC)I will answer in the post I'll be making about it.. Not today though because I can barely look straight right now (noth that I usually do)....
It's just that there has been drama and I once again realised I might be a bit too egoistic to be on the right side... or whatever the sane side is .. or sometthing.. It's hard to explain really because I am kind of thrown myself.